Some couples choose to build a life together without getting married—and that’s becoming more common. They might buy a home, raise kids, share finances, and make big plans for the future. But when it comes to life insurance, things can sometimes feel a little less clear if you’re not legally married.
A joint life insurance policy can offer, and how you and your partner want things handled if one of you dies unexpectedly. If you want to understand how this type of cover works in more detail, you can visit our dedicated joint life insurance page for a clearer overview.
This guide walks through the practical points, the emotional considerations and the small details that often matter more than people expect.
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What Is Joint Life Insurance and How Does It Work for Unmarried Couples?
A joint policy is really just one life insurance policy that two people share. Rather than each partner arranging their own separate plan, the cover sits in one place and applies to both of you.
There are two common versions:
First-to-die: the policy pays out a cash sum when the first partner dies, and then the policy ends.
Second-to-die (less common): the payout comes only after both partners have died.
For co-habiting couples, friends who share a mortgage, or two people with joint debt, the first option is usually more relevant because it helps the surviving partner cope with mortgage payments, bills or other financial obligations.
It works the same way for unmarried couples as it does for married ones, but without the legal “default settings” that automatically apply to spouses. That’s where careful planning comes in.
Joint Life Insurance for Unmarried Couples or Friends
A joint life insurance policy doesn’t require a romantic relationship. Two people with shared future costs, such as a mortgage or business loan, can take out cover together. Friends who invest in a property, siblings living together, or co-parents who are not in a romantic partnership sometimes choose a joint policy because it ties financial responsibilities to a specific arrangement.
It simply comes down to whether both people want financial stability for the other if something happens.
One thing to keep in mind is what happens to the payout. Unlike married couples, unmarried partners do not automatically become the other’s personal representative, so you will want to be clear about who receives the payout and how it should be handled.
Which Life Insurance Option Suits Couples Best?
There is no single “best” option because every couple has different priorities. A joint life insurance policy works well for people who want simplicity: one plan, one premium, one payout. It is often cheaper than two single policies, although that isn’t guaranteed.
However, a single life insurance plan for each partner gives greater flexibility.
If you separate, change circumstances, or each have very different medical conditions, two individual policies can sometimes give you more control over how your potential payouts are structured. A single plan can also make sense when one partner needs stronger protection or expects to rely on lifetime cover, such as whole of life insurance.
Some couples blend both methods: using a joint policy for shared commitments like a mortgage, and individual plans for more personal responsibilities such as family life insurance or cover linked to dependents.
For a helpful overview on comparing policy types, you can read our guide on life assurance vs life insurance.
The Benefits of Joint Life Insurance for Unmarried Couples
A joint policy tends to appeal to couples because it is straightforward to arrange and can sometimes work out cheaper than running two plans side by side. For those thinking carefully about couples financial planning, it also offers reassurance that the surviving partner has funds available soon after an unexpected loss.
It can also reduce emotional stress during a difficult time, because the insurance provider releases a clear, predetermined payout rather than leaving a partner without cover or facing complications from a partner without cover.
Joint cover can also keep things simpler if you prefer a shared approach to money. You both apply together, you choose one policy term, and you keep track of one premium.
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How Do Premiums and Coverage Differ for Unmarried Couples?
With joint cover, insurers look at the overall level of risk between both partners. If one person has notable medical conditions, works in a high-risk role or has lifestyle habits that insurers see as unusual, the cost of the joint premium can shift to reflect that.
When insurers work out the cost of a joint policy, they tend to look at the whole picture. Your medical conditions, both individually and together, usually carry some weight, and your past health history can affect the types of insurance they think are appropriate. Things like an age gap, old claims, or the sort of work or hobbies you do can nudge the price up or down as well. And if you have asked for any extra cover, such as critical illness, that gets added into the mix too. You can learn more in our article on critical illness insurance.
There are times when an insurer may ask for a short medical exam, especially if one partner has health concerns they want a clearer understanding of before confirming the cover.
If you want help comparing these differences, using a life insurance calculator can offer a rough estimate before you request tailored quotes.. You may also find it useful to read How much life cover do I need?.
Are There Legal Considerations for Unmarried Couples?
Yes, and this is where unmarried couples must pay closer attention than married ones.
Because unmarried partners do not automatically inherit each other’s estate, it is worth thinking about who would actually receive the payout and whether it might end up tied into the estate for a period. It also helps if each of you has a will that matches the intentions of your insurance policy, particularly where large sums or shared future costs like property are involved.
Some couples prefer to make formal nominations or speak with a solicitor so there is no confusion later, especially when dependents or business interests come into play.
For anyone still weighing up the pros and cons of life cover in general, our guide on the pros & cons of life insurance may provide some reassurance.
What Determines Whether an Unmarried Couple can Get Joint Life Insurance?
For unmarried couples, insurers usually assess much the same things they would for anyone else. They consider how you are both connected to the financial risk, the state of your health, the roles you each play in your finances, and how your shared responsibilities fit together.
Eligibility is mostly influenced by:
The level of financial ties between you
Your individual and joint health background
Any unusual income patterns or unusual requests
The type of cover you’re seeking, whether it's term cover or whole of life cover
Unmarried couples are usually eligible as long as they share financial responsibilities or can show the consideration for couples that insurers expect when assessing a joint policy.
Choosing Between Joint and Separate Policies
Deciding between a joint policy and single life insurance often comes down to how much independence you want in your cover. Two single policies may cost more, but they offer more freedom over changes later, particularly if one partner develops health issues or experiences a premium increase.
A joint plan is often a simple option and can sometimes work out cheaper as well. It usually fits couples who manage their responsibilities side by side and want some confidence that the financial commitments they share are looked after.
For practical help with the application process itself, you can read our guide on how to get life insurance online.
Choosing Life Insurance for Unmarried Couples
A joint life insurance policy can work well for unmarried couples who share their finances and responsibilities, but it is not the only path. Taking a little time to understand the different types of life insurance available can help you decide which approach suits your long-term plans best.
Get Help Choosing the Right Life Insurance
If you're thinking about taking out life insurance and want support as you compare options, we are here to help. Our team can guide you through the process, explain the different types of cover available and help you find a policy that suits your circumstances.
You can apply for a quote using our simple online form, which lets you compare prices from leading insurers in one place.
If you prefer to talk things through, you can speak directly with one of our expert life insurance advisers. We are always happy to answer questions or help you understand how the cover works.
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